Frankly, its pretty obvious that the hotter of the 2 catches my attention 100,000 more times than that of the other less flattering of the 2.
Hell, I may not even notice the presence of the "other" girl.

C'mon, who are we kidding?
It's pretty much the same for everyone (Girls admit it. If Brad Pitt and Average Joe walks pass, I'm damn sure Brad Pitt gets your undivided attention).

The very first impression that you give to anyone seeing you for the 1st time will 98% of the time be the impression you will give them for the rest of your life (or at least the
1st 10 times they see you).

You could say that I'm shallow in thinking this way but I would pretty much disagree.

Ok put 1st impressions aside for just a moment.
Never judge a book by its cover. Pretty obvious isn't it?

I mean everyone puts their trust into someone else's hands and what does that person do?
Break your heart, stamp on it and toss it into a pile of garbage.
But you couldn't see it coming... It wasn't your fault.
No, you should have seen it coming?
But how? There were no warning signs!
That person listened to every word i said, lent me their shoulders, they gave me a decent, "Trust-ME!" feeling...
I never expected them to do this to me!
All these sound familiar? And what would you say to yourself... I should not have judge that person by their appearance.
They were actually pretending all along!

Ironically it leads back to the 1st thought: "First impressions are important."

So which do we trust? Which is more important?

Here's a scenario (If the story happens to resemble something that you have experienced. It's entirely coincidental that I choose now to say it and that these were all
based on past and present experiences. In other words. YOU CAN'T SUE ME!)
That girl seems pretty nice. She's so sweet! She dresses appropriately, nothing revealing. And she just gave $100 to a children's benefit!
6 months later...
That girl that seemed pretty nice and all really was a backstabbing bitch. She gave me the impression she was trustworthy and i told her everything that was
close to my heart. And what does she do? Tell the whole world behind my back and even said what a terrible fool I was...
Ever been through something like this?

So do you still trust 1st impressions, or would you keep denying that you shouldn't judge a book by its cover?

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Clearning the air:

I'm sure there are many people out there who may think that I'm hanging out with the wrong person of late and you may think he is the kind of person you think he is. Let me tell you something.

He isn't what you most you people make him out to be. He just happens to be a victim of the dreaded "1st impressions" when infact he is
a 100,000,000 times better person than that.

He is pretty much like a "brother" to me so I would greatly appreciate if you (you know who you are) stop trying to act as if you know who I should hang out with
and who I shouldn't.
You had your chance. And you blew it.

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Recent happenings:

What's been going on lately with me?

I'm in the middle of the exams. Nope not exactly studying.

I took a break from my job.

I was involuntarily asked to take some neoprints with collegues (From Top Left Clockwise: Baoru, Shiwen a.k.a Wushu Queen, Me, and My "Bro" Josh)

I visited the Science Center and National Museum with the above people.


I dyed and cut my hair.

And she still is my happy person.

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